Programs The Lodge - Online Community

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PURPOSE. LEADERSHIP. BROTHERHOOD.

Join a growing community of men who are committed to holistic masculine self-mastery.

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THE LODGE IS A PLACE WHERE GOOD MEN GATHER TO PRACTICE THE ART OF CONSCIOUS MASCULINE LEADERSHIP.

Since the dawn of civilization, men have intentionally gathered to become better at being men.

Societies of the past understood that men always cultivated masculine virtues faster when surrounded by other men.

But these old traditions have been lost - leaving men isolated and lacking the structure, challenge, and accountability required to step into their full power.

The Lodge is a revival of these old ways - a community of men who are committed to becoming better leaders and lovers, and leaving a legacy that transcends time.

The Lodge is a place to find the tools, resources, and supportive atmosphere to finally become the man you were born to be.

HERE'S WHAT YOU GET WHEN YOU JOIN... THE LODGE

  • A Self-Guided Introduction into the Thirteen Pines Way 

  • Discount on Exclusive Lodge and Thirteen Pines merchandise

  • Monthly workshops with The Thirteen Pines' Team

  • Multiple men circles led by members of our Firekeeper facilitator training

  • Early and VIP Access to all Thirteen Pines Programs/Events

  • Exclusive Q&A Sessions with Thirteen Pines and Expert Guests

  • Exclusive Access To Our Expanding Library Of Resources, Practices, Courses, and Frameworks

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    Allan McGrath

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    Chris Marhefka

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    Nic Warner

  • We are a group of three men who built successful lives, yet yearned for more authentic and powerful connections with other men.

  • We weren't willing to settle for friendships that revolved around getting drunk, talking about sports, and complaining about our women/boss/family.

  • We wanted a real tribe of brothers who would challenge us, inspire us, and weren't afraid to call us on our bullshit.

  • Men who refused to settle for a mediocre existence while never realizing their full potential.

  • Men who were committed to masculine mastery - physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.

  • Men who were willing to do the hard things, have the difficult conversations, and face reality head-on because they were fiercely committed to being better leaders, partners, fathers, sons, and brothers.

  • With this intention, the three of us started our own men's group to support and challenge each other.

  • It quickly became clear that we weren't the only men yearning for this level of depth and brotherhood.

  • Thirteen Pines and The Lodge was born.

  • We're now bringing our 40+ years of combined experience as facilitators, coaches, entrepreneurs, and leaders to you.

  • Are you ready to join our community of men committed to conscious masculine leadership?

WHAT MEN ARE SAYING 

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    Allan McGrath

    Good morning everyone. Thank you all for sharing your experience. I have to say this challenge with all of you let me feel safe and strong. Thank you! I want to share something with you. I'm in a huge transition since 14 weeks now without alcohol, drugs and cigarettes. My live changed so much in a positive way, Now I'm able to see and feel myself. A lot things are going on, positive and negative, but my regular morning routine and the new things that I'm able to learn here with you let me grow. Yesterday I wrote in my journal to the question,,What are your priorities for tomorrow morning?" Check finance. And now the challenge for DAY6. You are amazing, stay strong and safe

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    Jay

    Amazing work fellas amazing to come on this chat and feel the energy and everyone getting after it. First day today incorporating the new morning routine with getting in my training and getting to work. Went really well. 5am wake up, cold shower, ego eradicator, wim hoff breath, meditation, normal, burpees outside, morning run, grab a smoothie and then off to work feeling good. The no ejac during intimacy is working wonders for me. have an epic and powerful week guys. Looking forward to tomorrows challenge these are really amazing, thanks to the thirteen pines team

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    Julian

    Good morning gentlemen. Morning routine in with the Burpees, extra working out, breath of fire and meditation all done. As I was about to get into the cold shower I received the email of the day and I wanted to thank you guys for bringing the topic of finances. As I clearly need to build a healthy mature and confident relationship to money, I'm really in need of this one part of the work! Again, grateful to be in this challenge with all of you.

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    Tony

    Meditation, breath of fire, burpees and cold shower all complete this morning. I will look at finances later today and will journal later tonight. Thanks for the accountability and drive to start pushing forward in life. I'm dealing with a lot of things, like finances and health, that I have been avoiding for a long time. Onwards!

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    Alistaire

    I really felt a huge difference doing the practices. Thank you for holding this container. I'll continue doing them.

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    Ezra

    I enjoyed the last seven days so much that I'm integrating all of the exercises into my daily practice. Thank you so much to all of you at Thirteen Pines for putting this together. Big Love

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    XYZ

    Good morning everyone. I appreciate hearing everyone's reflections. I got the three physical practices done. I appreciate the bringing in of journaling reflection, and now financial reflection. It's inspiring to be a part of a group of people who are doing this together.

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    Ro

    Appreciated this so much. Feeling so different to how I did one week ago. I can feel positive energy and momentum building every day. Thanks to you all and well done to everyone who made it. I will be anchoring a whole lot of this in my day from now on. Greets from Bavaria

ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTIONS

  • The Lodge is a community space structured around online embodiment calls, men's groups, q&a's and guest teachings in service of connecting men through conscious masculine embodiment.

    Every week there are multiple men’s circles led by the men from our facilitator training. Once a month we meet an exclusive workshop led by Allan, Nic or Chris as well as for a free community call.

  • There are a growing variety of calls at different times so everyone has access. Please check the calendar for what is coming up at a time that suits you!

    If you miss a call, don't worry - each call will be recorded and you will have access to the library of calls as long as you are a member.

  • The Lodge is intended to be a place for holistic masculine development - a one-stop-shop for everything a man needs to grow mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

    Some of the topics of focus include:

    - Finding/Living Your Purpose
    - Dating & Relationship Dynamics
    - Masculine/Feminine Polarity
    - Entrepreneurship & Wealth Building
    - Health & Fitness
    - Fatherhood
    - Healing & Working With Trauma
    - Brotherhood

    and much more...

    If there is a particular topic you want to dive deep on, we encourage you to suggest it.

    If we can't speak to it, we will bring in an expert who can.

  • No, The Lodge is a great entry point for men who are first dipping their toes into conscious masculine leadership.

    Whether you've been doing this work for a decade or have never been part of a men's community, you're about to tap into a rich well of knowledge, wisdom, and practices that will take your life to the next level.

    When you feel the call to go deeper, as a members of The Lodge you are entitled to exclusive discounts and first-access to all of Thirteen Pines long-term programs, retreats, and trainings.

  • Each of us have spent 5-10+ years honing our craft as leaders, coaches, and facilitators of transformation. We are constantly in our own work - investing in the best teachers, mentors, and coaches in the world.

    As individuals, we've each built successful businesses in the realm of transformation, healing, coaching, and facilitation.

    Collectively, we have supported thousands of men all over the world in the realm of purpose, embodiment, masculine energetics, relationship, fitness, and more.

    If you want to learn more about each member of Thirteen Pines, head over to www.thirteenpines.com/about

THE LODGE WELCOMES YOU