The Lodge is an online brotherhood committed to growth, depth, and walking the path of conscious masculine leadership. It's a place to be challenged, supported, and sharpened by a community of likeminded men.

YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO IT ALONE

Are you trying to hold it all together by yourself? The pressure. The uncertainty. The weight of responsibility that comes with being a man.

You’re not the only one. A lot of men have learned to live this way. The lone wolf. Self-reliant, but cut off. Holding everything in, with no real place to bring what’s actually going on.

That’s what The Lodge is for.

A space away from the noise. A brotherhood built on growth, depth, and keeping it real. Not another place to scroll mindlessly, but somewhere you can come as you are, be supported by other good men, and keep moving forward together.

WHAT'S INCLUDED

ONLINE COMMUNITY

The Lodge is an online space for men to connect, share, ask questions, seek advice, and support others. A lot of men don't have spaces where they can be real, vulnerable, and go beyond the surface-level. While The Lodge isn't a replacement for real-life connection, it's a supplement for men who are seeking more depth.

MONTHLY MEN'S CIRCLES

As a Lodge member, you'll have access to monthly online men's circles, led by one of the Thirteen Pines founders. This is your chance to gather around the digital campfire, practice, share, and connect with men in the community on a deeper level.

LIVE WORKSHOPS

There are live workshops inside The Lodge each month and a library of all past workshops to dive into. These workshops are designed to provide deeper insights and guidance around topics relevant to men, masculinity, leadership, relationships, and more. Past topics include: Vision and goal setting, nervous system regulation, money mastery, optimizing testosterone, sexual polarity, and more.

PRACTICE LIBRARY

You'll have access to the Thirteen Pines practice library. There are 30+ practices and more are being added each month, including meditation, breath work, embodiment, movement, and visualization.

MEMBER BENEFITS

Members of The Lodge will often receive early access to and discounts on our online programs, in-person events, and merchandise. These savings can amount to more than the cost of annual membership to The Lodge.

YOU ARE THE AVERAGE OF THE MEN
YOU SURROUND YOURSELF WITH

As the famous quote goes, "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with." But it can be hard for a man to make friends that support, challenge, and elevate him at work and in his community. You have to be intentional about building a circle of good men around you. That's why we created The Lodge. To give all men, everywhere, a place to connect with other good men that are doing the work.

BE PART OF A GLOBAL BROTHERHOOD

BECOME A MEMBER

Both plans include full access to The Lodge

MONTHLY MEMBERSHIP

$57

per month

Cancel anytime

ANNUAL MEMBERSHIP

$444

per year

Save $240 / Get 4 Months Free

MEET THE FOUNDERS

CHRIS MARHEFKA

CO-FOUNDER, LEAD FACILITATOR

Chris is a husband, father, mentor, and entrepreneur. Spending over a decade building multiple successful businesses, until a stress-induced brain injury put his entire life on hold. He sold everything and embarked on a full spectrum healing journey.

He has accumulated over a thousand hours of experience in emotional healing, trauma facilitation, breathwork and leadership development.

He has worked with more than 2000 clients in physical, mental, emotional, energetic and spiritual development.

NIC WARNER

CO-FOUNDER, LEAD FACILITATOR

Nic is a husband, father, coach, teacher and men's work leader dedicated to helping men cultivate the necessary tools to engage in a deeper experience of life.

Through transformational retreats, 1:1 mentorship, speaking engagements and group programs, he guides men in breaking through limitations, revealing their deeper purpose, and building more powerful, fulfilling lives and relationships.

Nic has dedicated his life to the healing and liberation of his own heart, so his two sons can live free.

ALLAN MCGRATH

CO-FOUNDER, LEAD FACILITATOR

Allan McGrath is a coach, mentor, and teacher specializing in sacred relationships, embodiment, and deep men's work.

Beginning his journey into meditation, yoga, and personal development at the ripe age of 16, he now dedicates his work to helping men, women, and couples embody their deepest selves in life and love.

Allan facilitates high-impact men's retreats, brotherhood circles, and 1:1 mentorship, creating spaces where men can reclaim their authenticity, depth and purpose.

FAQ

What times are the Men's Circles and Workshops?

The days and times can vary and we do our best to accommodate our global community of men. Most live events are between 11am-2pm Central Time.

What can I expect to get out of The Lodge men's community?

As with anything in life, you get out what you put in. The more active and engaged you are, the more value you'll get from The Lodge. That said, The Lodge provides an online space for sharing, support, seeking advice, challenge, and brotherhood. The workshops and online men's circles are there to help you grow, sharpen, and connect with other men. And the practice library can help you deepen and develop discipline and consistency. Our goal with The Lodge is for all men to feel more connected, supported, and empowered.

How is this different from other men's communities?

The Lodge is much more than a support + accountability chat group. We offer live experiences – workshops, practices, men's circles, challenges – that can have a tangible impact in your life. After working with hundreds of men over the past 4+ years, we have a good idea of what men need and what gets them to take action. The Lodge is built for men who are committed to progressing on the path of conscious masculine leadership.

How do you handle confidentiality and privacy?

We have "Rules of Engagement" inside The Lodge, which all men are expected to uphold. Confidentiality is one of the foundations of men's work and we take it very seriously. The community is privacy and you need a membership and login to access it. We do our utmost to encourage and uphold a culture of respect and reverence inside The Lodge.

What are the main topics you focus on inside The Lodge?

We cover a lot of ground, but our main focus is conscious masculine leadership. That includes self-leadership, purpose, relationships, health and wellbeing, money and finances, sex and intimacy, spirituality, and more.

What if I want to cancel my membership?

You can cancel your membership any time, no questions asked.

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